In an effort to put kindness at the forefront of our dialogue, we've introduced Rhodes to what we are calling the "The Kindness Can." The concept is pretty simple. Each night we make it a point to share ways we were kind to others or ourselves that day. We write them down on small steps of paper and place them in the jar. When the jar gets full, we pull one out at random. Whomever's name is pulled gets to plan a family activity.